Actually, like most every Indonesian I've met so far, she has three names, and I'm really not sure which one is appropriate to call her by. One might be a surname, one might be a formal name, one might be a casual name, I have no idea. We're going to stick with Dewi for now.
Maybe you only just realized that it was Mother's Day and would like to get her something more meaningful and original than chocolates and flowers. Please give sponsorship more than a thought. It's a gift that lasts throughout the year as she will receive a picture and letter from the kid every month that the sponsorship lasts.
2 years ago